Episodes

Nicole Skoch

She has had an extensive career in volleyball. The sport has seen her in roles from head volleyball coach at Shawnee Mission East, a high school in Prairie Village, Kansas, to being a volunteer coach at the college level with the Kansas Jayhawks, and even coaching a club team, plus, having been a student-athlete at the University of Texas where she played for four years and was a member of the 2012 NCAA National Championship team. Prior to her time with the Longhorns, she played on the U.S. Girls’ Youth National Team that competed at the 2011 International Volleyball Federation Girls’ Youth World Championship. She led her high school to two Colorado 5A State Championships and was a two-time Gatorade Player of the Year.

Notable guest quotes:

“Every Sunday night started Lent…five years back, I want to say… we would meet for Sunday night calls… we now do video Zoom calls… So, it’s a great way for us to gather and praise Jesus that way.”

“I’m very, very, very thankful for my parents… to ask about… how I can continue my faith journey and be involved in Bible study and continue to flourish in that.”

“This is why they want me, to play volleyball… that was my identity then and a few years down the road I figured out that’s not where my identity can lie.”

“She gave me a journal that night that I still have that she wrote Bible quotes throughout it.”

“That’s when the whole identity thing, like, this was taken away from me and now I have this feeling, this hole in my heart that’s always been there but it’s now even more radiating that only Jesus could fill.”

“That’s how Jesus just flourished in my heart, and I started wanting to lead Bible study and learn more.”

“That is a big part of my reversion story of allowing Jesus to be, yes, that number one priority in my life, and that was through spending time in Adoration and entering fully into the Mass and knowing Jesus in the Eucharist.”

“I’ll just forever be grateful for the Eucharist and Jesus revealing himself to us in such an intimate way through that.”

“It changed how I lived day to day and balance in keeping Jesus first rather than finding my worth in volleyball and this sport that is one day going to end.”

“Finding true joy in choosing to trust Him daily is what kept me going and what keeps me going today.”

“The Litany of Trust by the Sisters of Life is truly amazing… Sometimes I do it daily… but whenever I’m feeling anxiety… I love pulling out this prayer.”

Related link:

Nicole’s Prints & Praise Instagram account

(This episode contains a prayer adapted from one by an unknown Confederate Soldier, as seen in Play Like A Champion Today’s prayerbook for sports, God, Be In My Sport)

Craig Stammen

He is a veteran Major League Baseball pitcher. He has appeared in over 540 games and pitched close to 860 innings and is in his 13th season of MLB, with 2022 being his sixth season with San Diego, making him the second-longest tenured Padre. He spent seven years with the Washington Nationals, who had selected him in the 2005 MLB Amateur Draft out of the University of Dayton, where he made 60 pitching appearances after also having pitched for his high school baseball team as well.

Notable guest quotes:

“We immersed in the faith from day one.  The Catholic church there is St. Louis parish and the whole town pretty much goes to that church… Where I even went to public high school, ya’ know, 99 percent of the kids are Catholic and have that kind of faith life.  So, I’m very privileged and blessed to be able to grow up in that type of community, with the type of family that put Jesus at the forefront.”

“Football, basketball, and baseball is what I played in high school… It’s a good thing that I was a sports lover and was able to play ‘em all.”

“Obviously the draw of (the University of Dayton) being a Catholic school and faith being a part of its community did draw me towards that.”

“I felt like my faith was strong enough to go (to college) about anywhere, but the University of Dayton was the exact right spot for me at the right time.”

“I had a great foundation from my mom and dad, both strong in their faith, and taught me from an early age who Jesus was and how that was supposed to emulate how we live the rest of our lives.”

“When I got drafted (into MLB) I was very thankful, and I knew it was part of God’s control and part of His plan for me that that was going to happen.”

“That was probably the turning point… as far as when things kind of clicked and understood that faith and sports can work together, and sports is just an extension of my faith.”

“(2 Timothy 1:7) is a verse I use when I’m on the pitching mound, actually… And it just reminds me on the mound to not be fearful.  And, that I’ve been put on the mound that day for a reason, and that’s to glorify Him.”

“I think it’s an important idea in my own head to be a man after God’s own heart and to pray for that and to try to execute that on a daily basis.”

Related link:

Craig’s bio on MLB.com

(This episode contains a prayer by Fort Worth Christian Football League parent Linda Fleshman, as seen in Play Like A Champion Today’s prayerbook for sports, God, Be In My Sport)

Fr. Chase Hilgenbrinck

To serve Jesus he walked away from being a pro soccer player, having been with both the Colorado Rapids and then the New England Revolution of Major League Soccer.  That followed four years of having played soccer in South America for teams in Chile. In two of his four years there he was selected the league’s Most Valuable Player at the fullback position. As a student-athlete he had made the United States Under-17 National Team and was a High School All-American before going on to Clemson University. In college he was a four-year starter and helped the Tigers to an ACC Championship and four NCAA tournament berths, including two Elite Eight appearances. He is the Vocations Director for the Catholic Diocese of Peoria in Illinois. Next week will mark eight years since he was ordained to the priesthood.

Notable guest quotes:

“We were altar servers at our parish, growing up, and certainly sports was at the center of our household, as my parents were both athletes and my brother and I both played college soccer.”

“My parents were big into teaching us virtue and what we were supposed to be about and that comes from… Catholic teaching that they were passionate about.”

“I think a lot of people think all this faith is fantasy stuff.  It’s stuff that pious people make up and they want to believe to make themselves feel good.  Well, I had to ask all those questions too about sports and about faith.  I had to say, I want to be logical, I want to be real.  If God is true, then He created truth and we have to follow this.”

“We were sometimes late for games.  We sometimes missed meals with other families on Saturday nights, ya’ know, when all the traveling soccer teams go out to all the restaurants and all that and you have time with your friends.  We missed a lot of those things because we were at Mass… And I complained about that.  I was embarrassed often of my parents and of our faith because I said, ‘This is crazy and it’s not popular.  Nobody else is doing this’.”

“In my freshman year of college, I made my first lifetime commitment and I tell people today it’s the most important commitment I’ve ever made in my life and it’s more than being priest.  And that freshman year of college at Clemson I made the decision to be a practicing Catholic for the rest of my life.”

“There was no pre-signed contract.  I bought a one way ticket and told my parents I wasn’t coming home.”

“I realized that the Lord was going to bless me.  I had so much confidence in Jesus Christ and in his promises.  I always read Philippians 4:13 before I played (a soccer match).  I wrote PHIL 4:13 on my shin guard. That was the last thing I put on before I stepped onto the field.”

“(Being) a priest… is not an easy ministry.  It’s not always a comfortable ministry, but it’s the most rewarding and certainly a ministry that’s leading people to Jesus Christ and his heart.”

“It was me trying to figure out how to navigate God’s Will for my life as I was living out my will.”

(In Chile) “I started finding myself after (soccer) practice walking into Catholic churches.”

“I have to come before the Lord… and say… soccer was the way that I would’ve written my book.  The priesthood is the way that You would write this book.”

Related link:

Fr. Chase on Wikipedia

Mike Flood

He is the Vice President of Community Outreach for the NFL’s Seattle Seahawks, having now worked for the team for 25 years. He had served in the U.S. Coast Guard for 22 years, retiring as a Commander in 1997. He played football, basketball and baseball through his high school years and during his 22 years in the Coast Guard. He also coached basketball in military and youth leagues, and officiated basketball for 20 years. He serves on the boards of the King County Municipal League, Camp Patriot, and Empower Youth Network.

Notable guest quotes:

“I went to Catholic school from first grade through my junior year (of high school).”

“We went to church every Sunday, at least, and I was an altar boy.  Every day during Lent I’d go to church.  And… every Friday night we got the rosary out and knelt down at the living room couch and said the rosary.”

“I played varsity basketball and baseball in Virginia, and I played football, basketball, and baseball at Blanchet High School, a Catholic high school in Seattle.”

“Another thing that competition taught me is it’s not just in sports that you compete.  It’s in how you talk to people.  Can you reach people better if you understand them more and are really careful about what you say to them?”

“The plane rolled over to the left about 90 degrees, and I looked down at the ground and I thought, ‘I’m gonna die today’.”

“I’ve gotten to affect thousands of people’s lives through my job (with the Seahawks).”

“It led me to the statement for myself, to seek wisdom, act with confidence and compassion.”

“The way you converge the values that we get out of sports and our Catholic faith, our Christian faith, is really at the heart of a lot of things that the (Seahawks are) trying to do with people.”

“The things that people learn through sports don’t always translate into success in life and a smooth life.  But, every team, no matter whether it’s the Seahawks or the youth that we work with, everybody’s trying to get people to learn something beyond winning and losing in their experience with sports.”

“I read Richard Rohr almost every day, Father Richard Rohr, and he talks about how when we connect with each other based on each other’s true selves, we’re at a deeper level where love, compassion, wisdom, and beauty live.”

“Even the people that seem to be a pain in the neck, you can find something in common and respect them and respect the opportunity that you’ve got to make a difference for them and whoever they’re working with.”

“I got the Bible out… and I started reading Proverbs 8 and it just struck me… And so, I give it to other people.  If I think they really care, I print that out and give it to ‘em.”

Related link:

Mike’s bio on the Seattle Seahawks’ website

Tom McConnell

He is the head women’s basketball coach at Indiana University of Pennsylvania, with next month marking the nine-year anniversary since he was introduced there to that position. Just over three years ago — during his sixth season — he became the program’s all-time winningest coach. Under his guidance the Crimson Hawks have won two PSAC tournament titles, and back-to-back Atlantic Region crowns and Elite Eight national semifinal berths. He had come to IUP with more than 25 years of coaching, game management and player development knowledge learned after spending time on the coaching staffs of six colleges. At one point during his professional career, he was the Director of Youth and Campus Ministry for the Diocese of Altoona-Johnstown. In addition, he founded and directed The Word and the Rock Basketball Camp and was the Director of Camp Zacchaeus. As a student-athlete he had played basketball at two different colleges.

Notable guest quotes:

“I am the oldest of eight.  We grew up in Pittsburgh, and, Catholic all our lives.  We went to Our Lady of Loretto grade school in the Pittsburgh area and then onto Seton LaSalle High School.  When I was there it was South Hills Catholic High School.  So, it’s just been a big part of our family and (I) just really feel fortunate to have those twelve years of Catholic education.”

“I saw the ability to teach and to motivate, inspire, more than Xs and Os, but just to really impact young people through sports.”

“I was very blessed to have opportunities to go to Marquette University in Milwaukee, then on to University of Dayton, and then eventually as the head coach for seven years at St. Francis in Loretto, Pennsylvania.  And I just loved being in that (Catholic) environment.”

“It was probably not until I went to St. Francis and really got close with a lot of the friars there that my faith really began to grow.  And it was at that time that I knew that the more that God was working in my life, that I needed to now incorporate my faith into my coaching.”

“As my faith began to grow… I saw what God was doing in my life and I wanted to be able to share this with other players and coaches and so we started The Word and the Rock Basketball Camp.”

“Each morning and each afternoon we set aside time and we had sessions where we now talked about our faith and how to bring that into the sports world.”

“I was getting way, way more out of it than they were because I just saw what God was teaching and doing in my life and able to take those values, those principles, those gospel lessons and bring them into sports and everyday life.”

“When you look back on it you could really see God’s hand at work.  I thought I was going to St. Francis to try to win a conference championship and find a good place for my family to live and to raise them, and God put us in a neighborhood with some amazing faith-filled people who were very devoted.”

“Me, him, and two other guys went to Medjugorje for ten days and it was just so impactful.  And from that time on – and so moving – I just have tried to really incorporate into my life the five stones of the Medjugorje message of prayer, fasting, the Mass, the Bible, and frequent confession.”

“I just would encourage more Catholics to know the true role that Mary plays in our lives and how she just is a mother to us and just brings us to her son and he refuses her nothing, as we know.”

Related link:

Tom’s bio on IUP Athletics website

(This episode contains a prayer from the National Catholic Coaches Association‘s “The Leadership Papers,” although originally credited in there to The Coach’s Bible.)

Denis Villeneuve

He has been running for almost 49 years and has run over 72,000 miles, which means he has averaged running four miles a day for almost 49 years.  Three years ago, he won the State of Washington 6K Cross Country Championship and the Regional Championship. Back in his college days he started at the University of Oregon and participated in multiple intramural sports and ran on his own, including running his first marathon, before transferring to Oregon College for his junior year, running cross country and track there.  He had been a wrestler in high school, although he did end up doing cross country as well.  He has also coached extensively, including getting a job in the fall of 1984 at Redmond High School, where he coached cross country and track and didn’t retire until June of last year.

Notable guest quotes:

“Both of my parents were cradle Catholics and so I was born a cradle Catholic… and so I grew up from the church and just never left and attended Mass pretty much on a regular basis for all these years and no matter where I’ve been or what I’ve done I’ve kept that kind of going along and it’s a very comforting part of my life.”

“My parents were very devout, and they always made sure we were either in a school or in a CCD program or something of that nature, and then, going to Mass and practicing the sacraments.”

“My parents moved, and I went to a Catholic school in the nearby city and then we moved back to Eugene, and I went to a different Catholic school.”

“I like running alone more than with a group… I like my time out there in nature, just me and my thoughts.  And certainly, many prayers and meditations… have occurred during those countless miles.”

(running alone) “it’s a good stress reliever and it feels like a good connection with God.”

“They had a Newman Center at (University of) Oregon and so that was fun to go to to meet like-minded people… so it was nice to have a place to go to meet with people that were… more in tune with the things that I was interested in… And then when I transferred to Oregon College of Education… they also had a very nice Newman Center… Our priest there was wonderful, and he actually presided at my wife and I’s wedding later in life.”

“My focus in coaching was always the healthy mind-body connection and I always taught virtues and values that you could apply to running but also to the classroom and then to relationships, your job, your personal life, et cetera.”

“It turns out that she was Catholic, and that she was going to the Newman Center also… and then we went on a Newman Center retreat and started going out after that and haven’t stopped since… It will be 42 years (of marriage) in July.”

“We’ve been doing a Sunday night rosary every Sunday night at 8pm (virtually)… and each family dedicates intentions to whatever… So, it’s a good end of the day for Sunday.”

“I joined the (church) choir initially… and then I decided I’d rather lector, so I’ve been lectoring for, like, 30-plus years, and then I did a bunch of other stuff with St. Vincent de Paul and parish council and RCIA… We’ve been on church retreats… We’re very much involved… We’re always chipping in one way or the other.”

(This episode contains a prayer originally from prayers-and-poetry.blogspot.com, as seen in Play Like A Champion Today’s prayerbook for sports, God, Be In My Sport)

Harry Perretta

He served for 42 years at Villanova University as the head women’s basketball coach, tied for the most seasons at one school at all divisions in the history of NCAA women’s college basketball. A private, Catholic school, Villanova saw their women’s basketball team record 783 wins during his time as coach, which started when he was just 22 years old — the youngest coach to ever head a women’s varsity program at Villanova. He played his college basketball at Lycoming and went on to become a student assistant coach and coach of the junior varsity team before starting his four-plus decades career with the Wildcats. He also has a strong spiritual connection with someone considered to be arguably the greatest player he coached and whose faith story came to be told nationally.

Notable guest quotes:

“Our faith was pretty strong within the family… we followed the sacraments, we went to Mass regularly.  So, it was a decent kind of a faith within our family.”

“I went to Our Lady of Angels grade school… and I formed my religious background basically by the Immaculata nuns who taught us there and we also had a strong pastor.”

“For some reason, when I got older, like seventh and eighth grade, I started to get an attachment to the Blessed Mother, and I actually started saying my rosary back then.”

“I attended Monsignor Bonner High School and there I met up with the Augustinians, who ran the school.  And the Augustinians really laid down a solid faith foundation and I got to be friendly with a lot of the priests and that’s how I kind of continued on my path.  I continued to say the rosary.”

“There were people on the different teams who knew my religious background who would push themselves towards me.”

“We always prayed in the locker room before a game, and a lot of schools don’t do that, but that was just something that I felt that I wanted to do, so I did that.  And I always had a chaplain with us, and a lot of schools don’t really do that, but we always had a chaplain with us… So, that’s how I kind of spread my own faith, or faith in general, to the players.”

“We had some players who actually converted to Catholicism who were not Catholic, but a lot of that came from not just me but certain players that I had… that just radiated a strong religious background.”

“I was wearing my scapular when I went in for the (recruiting) visit and I pulled it out during the visit.  And, for some reason, a week later, two weeks later, the mother started to believe… that hey, this guy might be genuine.”

“I managed to convince the Mother Superior, when Shelly was entering the Poor Clares, that I would be able to visit her once a year.  And she kept that promise and passed it on to Mother Superiors after her and I’m the only non-family member that’s allowed to visit her once a year.  So, it’s a unique experience.”

Related link:

Harry’s bio on Villanova website

(This episode contains a prayer from the National Catholic Coaches Association‘s “The Leadership Papers,” although originally credited in there to The Coach’s Bible.)